I'm here, once again hoping to find that elusive person who understands , wants and needs the core dynamics of a lifestyle that, when applied correctly can be more intense, closer and deeper than anything experienced in the so called ' vanilla' world.
Someone who may or may not be experienced but who finds themselves drawn like the proverbial moth to a flame when matters BDSM are around. Someone who is so tempted that to merely singe their fingers wouldn't be enough, they want their soul scorched and permanently marked. Their inner soul aching to cry out - this is me and this is what I am .
I still remember vividly my first experience of this lifestyle in my late teens and couldn't really understand the intense feelings it evoked in me.I couldn't shake it off and in time, I researched everything I could about this moving experience, and all I had done was view it, I hadn't even had the physical pleasure , but mentally I was marked for life.
With help , i've matured into an experienced understanding realist who believes in the true meanings of the lifestyle and its roots.
The subtle mental approach is what I offer and hope I am looking in the right place. That's not to say I'm not physical,as this is also very important, but the physical is nothing without the mental and verbal. The body may give itself away but the breaking down of the doors in your mind is so much more enjoyable, especially so , when you find yourself unlocking them and willingly letting Me in. Physical and bodily responses are so much more intense if this can be achieved.
Be yourself , open and honest when contacting. I will obviously return this courtesy.
Alternatively if you would just like to chat, I'm happy for that too as if any experience I have can help I'm happy to give it. It's a hard enough road to walk alone and barefoot .
I have wide and varied experience over the years but know that experience is a personal thing and at this point I have no experience of you, this is something we get from each other. It's a voyage taken by 2 people, one Dominant and one submissive and at the outset they may know the lifestyle but not each other, so the learning and teaching starts there and both facets grow as we do. We grow as we walk the path. A submissive is as strong in her submission as a Dominant is in His acceptance and nurturing of this precious gift she offers. The strength to trust, to open to submit.
I know My realistic and core value beliefs will appeal to the right submissive, and I know she is out there somewhere. X A

Aquarius