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My name is aurora. I lead an active BDSM lifestyle, but I am not a masochist. I accept the pain, but I sure don't like it! I AM an adrenaline junkie. I AM an electroslut. I AM a pyro. I AM a spanko. What I crave is the fear-factor, the consuming sense of panic at the hands of someone I trust, and the subsequent endorphine/adrenaline rush that comes with it.
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Spanking was my gateway drug. Thoughts of it preoccupied me for as long as I can remember. It will always be a part of my sexuality, but it isn't everything anymore… I lust for something darker.
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I love edge play. Fire, knives, and electricity... Sometimes blood is a side effect, not a hard limit. I love to hate everything spanking and other impact play. Once I do get into it, though, I love what others seem to loathe: mostly heavy, dense implements, such as smoked dragon canes and wicked leather straps/stops. Unfortunately, my tolerance varies a LOT, so my play partners need to understand and accommodate that.
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So what does it take to push my buttons? It takes a dichotomous alpha male! He must be someone who conducts and carries himself in such a manner that it COMMANDS my respect, but is humble enough to return it in full. He will love me gentle, and mind-fuck me hard. He must adore my stubborn independence, yet be able to pull me under his thumb at his whim. He's got to be someone who doesn't expect a 24/7 D/s lifestyle, but can impose the lurking threat of assertion 24/7. He also better be strong, confident, creatively devious, and stable!
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You will also notice that “sapiosexuality” is listed in my fetishes below. There's more to it than that, though. It's not just a matter of being stimulated by intelligent people. Let's go ahead and take the sexual element out of it, for what I shall dub “sapiosadism”. Anyone can hurt someone, but do you have the ingenuity to comprehend the minutia of the submissive psyche? Can you get inside my head and MAKE me want to submit to you? Can you hurt me in such a way that I'll seek refuge in you... and long for more, instead of running away? If this is your music, can you play me like a maestro, or are you still struggling to be a guitar hero? THAT is the difference between what it takes to captivate me, and what it takes to entertain me for a brief while.
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Yes, age does matter. While I enjoy friends of all ages, I won't consider a relationship with someone more than ten years or so older.
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I'm not here looking for casual sex, so please don't bother if that's all that is on your mind. I prefer the company of those who's penises don't do all the thinking for them. I usually ignore any message that seems as such. Say something interesting, though, and it will increase your chances in getting a response!

Gemini

Curvy

5' 0 (1.52 m)

Green

Caucasian

Single

No

No

Hair

Branded, Secret Piercings, Visible Tattoo

Blonde

Cat

Yes

College Degree

Full-time

Other

Laser Tech / Sales

Alone

Friends Come Over Occasionally

No

Yes - Socially

Quiet One

Flirtatious, Observant, Reserved, Shy

Camping, Cooking, Dining, Internet, Games, Learning, Movies, Tv

Drinking, Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Museum, Partying, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things, Tv

Friendly, A Flirt

Agnostic

Never

Libertarian

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Sadistic

Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies

Science Fiction, Comedy, Family, Thriller

Rock

Fantasy, Science, Science Fiction

Boldness, Empathy, Flirtatiousness, Good Looks, Great Skills, Humor, Intelligence, Money, Power, Thoughtfullness, Wit

Friend, Date, Committed, Domination